Thursday, March 26, 2009

Lovin' the Ladies Group!

My last post was about growing my relationship with God and finding new girlfriends, who weren't so toxic. I haven't pushed those friends to the side; I've been friends with them for years and love them dearly. I'm just working on myself. The friends aren't the problem. I just want to get away from my old habits and make changes in myself.

The group is for women whose husbands don't go to church. My husband will go to church, but we are both too lazy. We like to sleep in on Sundays and do absolutely nothing! I'm putting forth the effort to start going to church more often. We normally go once or twice in 6 months? That's just not enough. Going to church is one thing, but applying the things you learn at church in daily life, is what's most important. So, I'm working on that too!

We meet at a coffee shop and they just lock us in, and we have the place to ourselves. I enjoy our conversations. Last night was a little more focused, but we still managed to talk entirely too much. Women have to do that though; it's how we identify with others to see what might be normal, lol. We are beginning a new book called, " Blessing Your Husband". I've only read the introduction, but it seems interesting enough.

Next week, we are going to a fondue restuarant, then we are off to see The Thorn. I'm new to all of this stuff, so this is a bit much. It's not overwhelming, because I'm always on the go. I walked in they were like purchase AML a book! Purchase AML a ticket! lol.

You can read about The Thorn here: www.thethorn.net

I'm excited to be on this journey, but it's really difficult. I work with some wild women and we have a LOT of salon drama taking place. It's a stressful time around there. I swear I've gossiped and cussed more than ever, this week. I realized I can't expect to be totally different, now that I'm getting back into church. I can only work on one bad habit at a time.

I hope things can get better at work, but it's not looking so good for some people.

Gabby is still eating her soft food and seems to be fine.
Duce is still a complete psycho. I love him anyway :)

I doubt I have a chance at being pg this month. I never really have a good chance, because we just aren't active enough. I'm still charting, temping, etc but I'm just going to say we are not TTC anymore, because he just doesn't seem to be into enough. He goes to see his psychiatrist today, so I think he's going to let him know, that there hasn't been much of a change in his sex drive.

Just thought I'd update. Congrats to all the BFP's! Especially Mandee!

2 comments:

Mrs.Andreazza said...

Glad you are enjoying your group, definitely sounds like a good group of women. I love fondue restaurants! DH and I went to one for Valentine's. It was so good! Hope things go well for you DH at the docs. I'm sure it is really hard for him to be going through this :(

JoeyPNut said...

Your group sounds like a lot of fun! I wish I could find a group like that around here. Have you watched the movie Fireproof yet? It is a great religious based movie! You have to get through the bad acting though. I'm probably in the same spot you are with religion... trying to change things one at a time, trying to get myself out of bed on Sunday. I hope your DH gets things worked out. That must be hard on you, and I'm sure him as well. Good luck!